Stroke Recovery Tips: When Exercises Don’t Seem to Work
Is it possible to be making progress after a stroke or neurologic injury and still feel like your movement is getting stiffer, heavier or just plain harder?
Absolutely. And let me tell you, it is one of the most frustrating things I see in recovery.
So why does this happen? Why can you be “getting stronger” but feel like your movement quality is getting worse? And more importantly, how do you measure progress in a way that actually helps you get better?
Strength vs. Motor Control – They’re Not the Same Thing
A common frustration I hear:
“I feel stronger, but my walking feels heavier.”
“Some days my leg won’t move at all.”
“I fatigue so quickly, even though I know I’m improving.”
This all comes down to understanding the difference between strength and motor control.
When you’ve had a stroke, it’s not that your muscles are simply “weak.” The problem is that the operating system, your brain’s code that controls movement has been damaged.
Think of your brain like a computer. Your muscles are the keyboard and they still work. But the hard drive that runs the programs? That’s where the damage is. When a stroke wipes out part of the “code,” your muscles can’t execute normal movement patterns anymore.
So what do most people do? They fall back on what they know: strengthen, strengthen, strengthen. But strengthening alone often reinforces abnormal movement patterns (like spasticity or those stiff, locked movements). And the more you push into those, the more your brain rewires around them. We call that negative neuroplasticity.
So What Can You Do?
Focus on Motor Control
Here are some strategies I use with my patients to turn all that effort into quality movement that feels better and translates into daily life.
1. Sensory Input Matters
Things like tapping, rubbing, vibration, or even just moving the arm or leg passively, these all remind your brain: “Hey, there’s a limb here, pay attention!”
It’s like reintroducing your brain to your body again.
2. Prioritize Quality Over Quantity
Don’t just celebrate movement for movement’s sake. Watch how it’s moving.
If your arm rotates in oddly when you lift it or your hand closes with your thumb tucked, stop and adjust. Reinforcing abnormal patterns makes them harder to break later.
3. Break Skills Down
Walking is a perfect example. Instead of endless squats and lunges, focus on the exact part of walking that’s giving you trouble.
- Practice weight-bearing without locking your knee.
- Practice swinging the leg without relying on abnormal patterns.
- Practice lifting your ankle with your knee straight.
This helps rebuild control, not just strength.
But Also… Don’t Forget to Just Walk
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is the obvious: walk more.
I see so many people get caught up in finding the “perfect exercise” when what they really need is more time on their feet.
Just like toddlers, they don’t get drills, they just keep practicing until it clicks.
The Big Takeaway
Feeling like your movement is “worse” while you’re working hard can actually be a sign that your brain is still figuring things out. The key is shifting your focus from strength alone to motor control, and making sure the movements you’re practicing are high-quality and moving you closer to normal function.
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I hope this helps connect some dots for you.
Remember: Progress isn’t always a straight line, and sometimes “worse” movement is just part of the path to better.
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